meet the AR interface requirements.

now supports mapped primary key when _id is part of source with an
alias.

Fixes #1579: throw exception when the given AR relation name does not match in a case sensitive manner.
Renamed `ActiveRecord::getPopulatedRelations()` to `getRelatedRecords()`

fixes #1469

issue #1313

- allows to have dynamic definition of attributes depended on the
  instance
- there was no real need for it to be static. Places that used it static
  have been refactored.

fixes #1318

+ added tests and fixed behavior

this allows us to implement other activerecord implementations based on
NoSQL dbms

[ci skip]

fixes #842

- allows checking whether a relation has been populated
- getting a list of relation names that have been populated
- getting all populated relation data

todo:

- [] add phpdoc

... for different dbms

this is to make relations work. tests are passing now.
refactoring needed to remove the dependency